The Foolishness of Complaining
Now the people complained about their hardships in the hearing of the LORD, and when he heard them his anger was aroused. Then fire from the LORD burned among them and consumed some of the outskirts of the camp. When the people cried out to Moses, he prayed to the LORD and the fire died down. So that place was called Taberah, because fire from the LORD had burned among them. The rabble with them began to crave other food, and again the Israelites started wailing and said, “If only we had meat to eat! We remember the fish we ate in Egypt at no cost—also the cucumbers, melons, leeks, onions and garlic. But now we have lost our appetite; we never see anything but this manna!” (Num. 11:1-6)
When I was young I had a strong dislike of vegetable soup. Well, let me rephrase that. Actually I hated vegetable soup. I mean I really HATED vegetable soup. And at this point in my life I really don’t know why. I’ve now grown to love it. In fact on a cold, blustery day I can hardly think of anything better than to sit down to a nice hot bowl of homemade vegetable soup. It takes the chill right out of the bones. But when I was a kid it was an entirely different story. No one on earth could get me to eat it. Every time my mom made it, it became a battle of wills to see who would hold out the longest. She would say, “If you don’t finish that bowl of soup you don’t get up from that table!” I would think to myself, “Fine with me! I’ll just sit here until I’m 85 years old, but I’m not a-gonna to eat that soup!” I’d sit there for hours. The fat in the broth would harden forming an orange ring of grease around the edge of the bowl. The vegetables would dry out and get all wrinklely, but I wouldn’t give in. One night I fell asleep at the table and woke up in my bed. I thought to myself, “Wow, I won!” The next morning I had vegetable soup for breakfast.
Now as a child I was very obstinate, but I wasn’t stupid. I learned early on that I compounded my troubles if I complained during this whole deal. My mother would tolerate my little hunger strikes with a bit of patience but I had to be quiet during the process. If I started bellyaching about why I didn’t like what was being served – well, let’s just say that complaining never resulted in anything good happening. If I complained verbally, even once, I knew I would get the “starving-kids-speech.” Now I know you don’t know my mother, but I’d bet you know the speech. (It seems as if every mom comes equipped with the “starving-kids-speech” as standard equipment.) She would lecture me about kids who were hungry in far away places around the world and that they would give their right arm for the bowl of soup I was refusing to eat. She would tell me about starving kids in India who never had anything to eat. And that I should be grateful that I wasn’t one of them and had the opportunity to have this soup supplied for me. It normally would contain something about not wasting food when it was provided and that I’d better grow up and begin to understand that money doesn’t just grow on trees. The intensity and the volume of the speech would increase as she gave it. By the time she got to the end of it you could probably count on a couple of pots and pans being banged around on the counters and her face becoming a rather interesting shade of crimson. (Which I honestly found mildly entertaining.) I remember on one such occasion I smugly suggested that she might want to consider sending her homemade soup over to some of those poor unfortunate children in India instead of forcing me to eat it. - - Say something like that only once to a mother and you’ll soon realize that it produces results you never want to face again. I learned at a very young age that complaining was a very foolish thing to do.
In the above passage the children of Israel are very unhappy with the way things were going for them. In spite of the fact that Almighty God was with them as a pillar of fire during the night and a pillar of cloud during the day, they still complained. In spite of the fact that Almighty God was providing free food every day through the miraculous appearance of manna, they complained. In spite of the fact that just three days prior to this Almighty God had met with them and given them instructions at Mt Sinai promising he would constantly watch over them and keep his promises, they complained. They were chronic complainers, a joyless group of people to be around. That’s what a complaining spirit does to a person – it robs people of their joy. Haven’t we all seen people who choose to complain no matter what positive things are going on in their life? If the streets of heaven are paved with gold, I half-expect that some of the people I know will still complain over how yellow everything looks.
Chronic complaining never brings about anything good. It blinds people to the blessings in life. It prevents people from growing into maturity. It enslaves people to a bitter spirit. It isolates people from ever developing close relationships. And it is extremely contagious. It’s more infectious than the swine flu. When you’re around a chronic complainer, their negative outlook can contaminate your attitude without you even knowing it. And the funny thing is complainers love when that happens. When others join the complaining chorus in a great cacophony of petulant grumbling it makes them feel justified in their actions. It gives the complainer a sense of validation that they were right all along to hang on to their irritable ways.
What makes this even more difficult to deal with is that complainers usually write it all off as a minor character flaw. “Hey, so I complain a little. What’s the big deal? It’s just the way I am.” But notice what this passage says; “Now the people complained about their hardships in the hearing of the LORD, and when he heard them his anger was aroused.” Now let me give you little hint; when you’re reading something in the Bible and it says something like, “and this aroused the anger of the Lord,” you might want pay very close attention to it. That’s not something you want to write off too quickly in your life. We think, “surely complaining is nothing like stealing, or lying, or adultery.” Really? What does God think? In our text, complaining brought down fire from God. We need to view complaining as a serious problem that often obscures our view of God and the blessings that He gives to us. A complaining spirit reveals an attitude of ingratitude. It’s the exact opposite of the kind of character that God is seeking to grow in the hearts of his children. It never brings about anything good in your life. That’s why we are reminded in Philippians 2:14 “Do everything without complaining or arguing.”
So what’s the cure to a complaining spirit? Simple – be grateful. If you’ve a bowl of hot soup to enjoy today in your home, you’re doing far better than a lot of people who will go hungry tonight. “In fact, I know of kids in India . . . .” Count your blessings and thank God for His abiding presence and His faithful provision and stop complaining.
Live the Victorious Life,
PT
When I was young I had a strong dislike of vegetable soup. Well, let me rephrase that. Actually I hated vegetable soup. I mean I really HATED vegetable soup. And at this point in my life I really don’t know why. I’ve now grown to love it. In fact on a cold, blustery day I can hardly think of anything better than to sit down to a nice hot bowl of homemade vegetable soup. It takes the chill right out of the bones. But when I was a kid it was an entirely different story. No one on earth could get me to eat it. Every time my mom made it, it became a battle of wills to see who would hold out the longest. She would say, “If you don’t finish that bowl of soup you don’t get up from that table!” I would think to myself, “Fine with me! I’ll just sit here until I’m 85 years old, but I’m not a-gonna to eat that soup!” I’d sit there for hours. The fat in the broth would harden forming an orange ring of grease around the edge of the bowl. The vegetables would dry out and get all wrinklely, but I wouldn’t give in. One night I fell asleep at the table and woke up in my bed. I thought to myself, “Wow, I won!” The next morning I had vegetable soup for breakfast.
Now as a child I was very obstinate, but I wasn’t stupid. I learned early on that I compounded my troubles if I complained during this whole deal. My mother would tolerate my little hunger strikes with a bit of patience but I had to be quiet during the process. If I started bellyaching about why I didn’t like what was being served – well, let’s just say that complaining never resulted in anything good happening. If I complained verbally, even once, I knew I would get the “starving-kids-speech.” Now I know you don’t know my mother, but I’d bet you know the speech. (It seems as if every mom comes equipped with the “starving-kids-speech” as standard equipment.) She would lecture me about kids who were hungry in far away places around the world and that they would give their right arm for the bowl of soup I was refusing to eat. She would tell me about starving kids in India who never had anything to eat. And that I should be grateful that I wasn’t one of them and had the opportunity to have this soup supplied for me. It normally would contain something about not wasting food when it was provided and that I’d better grow up and begin to understand that money doesn’t just grow on trees. The intensity and the volume of the speech would increase as she gave it. By the time she got to the end of it you could probably count on a couple of pots and pans being banged around on the counters and her face becoming a rather interesting shade of crimson. (Which I honestly found mildly entertaining.) I remember on one such occasion I smugly suggested that she might want to consider sending her homemade soup over to some of those poor unfortunate children in India instead of forcing me to eat it. - - Say something like that only once to a mother and you’ll soon realize that it produces results you never want to face again. I learned at a very young age that complaining was a very foolish thing to do.
In the above passage the children of Israel are very unhappy with the way things were going for them. In spite of the fact that Almighty God was with them as a pillar of fire during the night and a pillar of cloud during the day, they still complained. In spite of the fact that Almighty God was providing free food every day through the miraculous appearance of manna, they complained. In spite of the fact that just three days prior to this Almighty God had met with them and given them instructions at Mt Sinai promising he would constantly watch over them and keep his promises, they complained. They were chronic complainers, a joyless group of people to be around. That’s what a complaining spirit does to a person – it robs people of their joy. Haven’t we all seen people who choose to complain no matter what positive things are going on in their life? If the streets of heaven are paved with gold, I half-expect that some of the people I know will still complain over how yellow everything looks.
Chronic complaining never brings about anything good. It blinds people to the blessings in life. It prevents people from growing into maturity. It enslaves people to a bitter spirit. It isolates people from ever developing close relationships. And it is extremely contagious. It’s more infectious than the swine flu. When you’re around a chronic complainer, their negative outlook can contaminate your attitude without you even knowing it. And the funny thing is complainers love when that happens. When others join the complaining chorus in a great cacophony of petulant grumbling it makes them feel justified in their actions. It gives the complainer a sense of validation that they were right all along to hang on to their irritable ways.
What makes this even more difficult to deal with is that complainers usually write it all off as a minor character flaw. “Hey, so I complain a little. What’s the big deal? It’s just the way I am.” But notice what this passage says; “Now the people complained about their hardships in the hearing of the LORD, and when he heard them his anger was aroused.” Now let me give you little hint; when you’re reading something in the Bible and it says something like, “and this aroused the anger of the Lord,” you might want pay very close attention to it. That’s not something you want to write off too quickly in your life. We think, “surely complaining is nothing like stealing, or lying, or adultery.” Really? What does God think? In our text, complaining brought down fire from God. We need to view complaining as a serious problem that often obscures our view of God and the blessings that He gives to us. A complaining spirit reveals an attitude of ingratitude. It’s the exact opposite of the kind of character that God is seeking to grow in the hearts of his children. It never brings about anything good in your life. That’s why we are reminded in Philippians 2:14 “Do everything without complaining or arguing.”
So what’s the cure to a complaining spirit? Simple – be grateful. If you’ve a bowl of hot soup to enjoy today in your home, you’re doing far better than a lot of people who will go hungry tonight. “In fact, I know of kids in India . . . .” Count your blessings and thank God for His abiding presence and His faithful provision and stop complaining.
Live the Victorious Life,
PT
